Wednesday, May 31, 2006
你发觉了吗？爱的感觉总是在一开始时甜蜜，总觉得多了一个人陪，多了一个人帮你分担，你终于不再孤单了，因为至少有一个人想着你、恋着你，只要能在一起就是好的。
但是慢慢地，随着认识的加深，你开始发现了对方的缺点，于是问题一个接一个出现，你开始烦、累，甚至想要逃避，有人说爱情就像捡石，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？她适合你，那你又适合她吗？
其实，爱情应该像磨石子儿，或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么满意，但是请记住，人是有弹性的，很多事情是可以改变的，只要你有心，有勇气，与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光，你开始磨了吗？很多人以为，是因为感情淡了，人才会变得懒惰，其实人是先被惰性征服，感惰才慢慢变淡的。
在某个聚餐的场合，有人提议多吃点虾对身体好，这时候有个中年男人忽然说：“十年前，当我老婆还是我女朋友的时候，她说要吃十只虾，我就剥二十只给她。现在，如果她要我帮她剥虾壳，简直就是开玩笑，我连帮她夹菜都没兴趣了，还剥虾壳呢。”
难怪越来越多的人只想谈一辈子恋爱，却迟迟不肯走入婚姻。因为，婚姻容易让人变得懒惰。
如果每个人都懒得讲话，懒得倾听，懒得制造惊喜，懒得温柔体贴，那么夫妻之间，又怎么会不渐行渐远渐无声呢？所以请记住，有活力的爱情是需要适度殷勤来灌溉的，谈恋爱，更是不可以偷懒的。
有一对情侣，相约下班后去用餐，逛街，可是女孩因为公司会议延误了，当她冒雨赶到时候已经迟到了30多分钟，她男朋友很不高兴地说：“你每次都这样，现在我什么心情也没了，我以后再也不会等你了！”刹那间，女孩的心决堤崩溃了，她在想：或许，他们再也没有未来了。
同样，在同一个地点，另一对情侣也面临同样的处境，女孩赶到的时候也迟到了半个钟头，她的男朋友说：“我想你一定忙坏了吧？”接着他为女孩拭去脸上的雨水，并且脱去外套披在女孩身上，此刻，女孩流泪却是温馨幸福的。
你体会到了吗？其实爱恨往往只在我们的一念之间！爱不仅要懂得宽容更要及时，很多事可能只是在于你心境的转变罢了。如果有个人爱上你，而你也觉得他不错，那并不代表你会选择他。
我们总说：“我要找一个很爱很爱的人，才会谈恋爱。”但是当对方问你，怎样才算是很爱很爱的时候，你却无法回答他，因为你自己也不知道。
没错，我们总是以为，我们会找到一个自己很爱很爱的人。可是后来，当我们猛然回首，才发觉自己曾经多么天真。假如从来没有开始，你怎么知道自己会不会很爱很爱那个人呢？其实，很爱很爱的感觉，是要在一起经历了许多事情之后才会发现的。每个人都希望找到自己心目中百分之百的伴侣，但是你有没有想过，在你身边早有人对你默默付出很久了，只是你没有发觉而已。
所以，还是仔细看看身边的人吧，他或许已经等你很久了。
爱一个人，要了解也要开解；要道歉也要道谢；要认错也要改错；要体贴也要体谅；是接受而不是忍受；是宽容而不是纵容；是支持而不是支配；是慰问而不是质问；是倾诉而不是控诉；是难忘而不是遗忘；是彼此交流而不是凡事交代；是为对方默默祈求而不向对方诸多要求。可以浪漫，但不要浪费，不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。
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- 11:22
Sunday, May 28, 2006
sigh.. i wanna go out but then its rainning! =_= sianz... yday alr stay home cos gena fang fei ji by 2 ppl.. diao~ nvm lo.. looks like dis sunday i'll oso be stuck at home.. diao.....
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- 12:33
Thursday, May 25, 2006
my 2 cousins gave mi presents when i went bk to batam tt day.. i tot y gimme presents 4 no special ocassion lo.. aft tt the gal then tel mi its my belated bday present.. faint lo.. my bday was like in Dec lo.. n nw its like May.. aiyo.. these kids.. but i reali appreciate it lah.. :) they bot mi snoopy tings.. i guess its a known fact to ppl close 2 mi tt im a snoopy-siao.. haha..
this 2 photoframes are from JiaLe:
this hp strap is fr Yihan, hanging on my hp now! haha: 
maybe i shd post a pix of these 2 kids as well! ta-da~ 
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- 16:15
Ya, i noe i've been nuah-ing for almost a mth le.. but then i oso nt gan jiong y u all more gan jiong than mi??? i hate it when ppl ask mi.. "eh, so how? found job liao? huh? almost a mth liao leh, y haben find?" these ppl reali is nv die b4 lo.. i oso nv ask u all to yang wo wat??? so wat if i haben find a job? Gns-ed! so my frenz, aft reading dis, dun come n say such tings 2 mi.. even if u r juz concerned abt mi, can u put it in a nicer way? its nt like i nv find job OK? get it? i've been going for interviews ok.. -_-
signing off,
mangzang jotitude
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- 12:03
Thursday, May 18, 2006
ok, dis is gonna be the last post for my batam stay.. more of pix i guess.. aft the dinner at seaside restaurant, mi took elder uncle's car while the kids n my youngest uncle were playing at the beach.. hehe.. i tot uncle wld go str8 home but in the end we went on an exploring trip n reach home later than those we left later than us.. haha.. in the car was ah mah, my mum, uncle n wife n mi! i guess i was the busiest in the car cos i was bz snapping shots fr left, right, front, back n center.. ah mah even ask uncle to slow down so i wont haf blur shots.. haha.. so cute.. i tink ah mah enjoyed the ride oso.. she even said tt if batam haf big big florist or hua yuan, she wana go walk walk the next day, too bad uncle says batam no haf -_-
this is nongsa ferry terminal.. the bridge there is nice too
the bridge at nongsa ferry terminal
this hut at the terminal looks so fu gu lo.. we drove pass there twice then 2nd time ah mah ask u took photo of the attap hse alr? haha.. so cute de ah mah.. 
this is the Palm Spring Beach & Golf Resort.. its by the sea lo! bery nice view.. i was commenting "wah, if can drive inside c the scenary sure shiok" uncle bery funny lo, he reali drove in.. n the guards came runnin aft our car.. haha.. 1 of them even drove the golf car 2 give chase.. uncle juz geh geh say he dunno cant drive in.. haha.. n the guards believe! I've got a POWDERFOOL uncle! haha..
sunset shots.. i tink i juz simply love sunset lo.. find 1 day i muz go n tk sunrise.. :)
tats all le.. mi gtg watch vcd liao.. hehe.. nitez ppl
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- 23:52
seems like my batam stay dis time qte happening wor.. mi even got to go to my elder uncle's billard shop.. mi & my 2 cousins had fun there lo.. play till sweat.. i'm a lousy player la.. but in the end i still win my 2 cousins.. haha.. here's some shots fr the game
all the pro ppl were downstairs lo.. so we gotta hide upstairs so wont xia shuey too much.. actuali those ppl downstairs we all noe 1 lo.. either my uncle's frenz or his workers.. but then we beta nt xian chou in frt of them la.. but then i still gena suan by them la.. 1 say "wah.. she reali can play hor" another 1 says "u noe hw 2 play meh? cfm dunno 1 lo" these guys all c mi no up.. altho i nt gd, at least i dare 2 try mah.. -_- no gimme chance i how 2 improve.. hmpf.. abt 10+ uncle says hui jia le.. so we all went to buy supper b4 heading home..
oh ya, i muz say my ah mah reali got green fingers.. she can grow veggies in a small small plot of soil lo.. mi reali peifu dao~ here's the evidence
look wat i've got here.. ah mah dunno dig dis out fr whr lo.. wooden cigi case.. bery cool lo.. but my aunt say i wu liao.. such tings oso wana tk pix.. aiya.. i like 2 tk photos ma.. cant meh?? diao
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- 23:42
Wednesday, May 17, 2006
this time go bk batam is to celebrate mother's day for my dear dear ah mah.. every yr her kids n grandkids will gather & haf a meal at a restaurant (normali by the sea cos ah mah likes it there)... here's some of the photos taken.. mi lazy to type stories so shall post more pix instead.. :p
here's some shots of the beach:
here's my youngest uncle searching 4 "treasure" haha
after walking for a while, my cool cool coconut drink reali quench my thirst!
isnt he cute? he's my kawaii & super noti nephew~ sm1 comment tt he look like a cartoon character hui meh??
the biggest treasure that uncle got mi.. haha
ah mah noe tt i like seashells so she got my cousin (biao ge) to go n pick for mi.. hehe.. here's those i brought home.. had a hard time choosing.. sm1 actuali tried to "pocket" all the seashells but then ah mah says "go n pick wat u wan! she not ard, nvm.. go n choose!" haha.. lucki got my dear dear ah mah! muacks!
here's my elder uncle.. his sittin posture is ultimate lo.. tt white white ting at his mouth is smoke fr his cigi if u r wondering wats tt..
here's my youngest uncle! :) & then nx to him is a family fren i call him "su-gu-nang" haha.. 
& finali the star of the day! my ah mah caught in the act (smoking~) keke 
ok, last few shots of the beach.. 1st shot got a dog dog there.. 
here's youngest uncle bringing my cousins to pick shells n play sand n water..
ok shall cont the rest of my batam stay later on.. late le.. go sleep le.. tata all!~
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- 01:31
