Thursday, June 29, 2006
so fast wkend coming agn.. dis wk like pass bery fast..
mon go work with a horrible voice cos i lost my voice over the wkend cos of the stoop sorethroat.. lunch time went help ltz buy sthg.. tt ltz tell mi sala name make mi malu in frt of the sales assistant.. pengz.. aft work went to pass him then went home then went c doc.. for once doc gimme mc n i didnt feel like mc-ing the next day.. simple reason: no work no $ la.. crawl oso crawl there.. haha.. tho i was sick but my brain juz didnt wana rest early still muz wit till 12+ then willing 2 rest..
nx day went to work, felt much beta.. but still a bit voiceless la.. went for a hair cut aft work.. as usual, my mum ask you trim 1cm only issit? mi cut diao 2inch she say 2cm.. aiya.. nvm la.. used 2 it can le lo..
wed went watch superman returns with gd fren.. had dinner b4 going for the movie.. we spent abt 2hrs at the FJ there lo.. faint.. reach cinema then we realized tt its front row seats.. ben dan gd fren didnt noe lo, still tot its last row.. feel like ahbish him.. we were sayin by the time show finish, most prob our neck stiff, eyes pain.. cmi.. n true enuf the whole 2.5hrs reali sit till a bit uncomfy.. uncomfy till can doze off n wake up.. haha.. i pei fu myself.. actuali the show is nt bad la.. but kinda draggy lo.. by the end of the show, i tink i reali is tired le.. lucki reach home only 12+ so slp at 1+.. still can catch a few hrs of slp.. but then i was still kinda late for work today la.. altho alarm + morn call woke mi totali i still laze 5more min b4 mi reali got up.. :p didnt haf much to do at work today other than having to liaise with ppl overseas n all.. manage to mt ah boon for a cuppa tea then lunch time mt nanc.. haha.. its gd to c them.. :)
tmr mtg grace for porridge steamboat.. haben tried b4 but heard abt it... lets hope its gd! :)
k la, time to slp liao.. wait gena nag by ppl agn.. wan an all..
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 23:25
Tuesday, June 27, 2006
so fast 1 week has past agn.. last wkend was a bit bz.. sat went out wit mum to buy tings.. sunday went baibai in the mornin then went eat "peng cai" with cousins n all.. the ingredients in the peng cai reali is qte atas 1 lo.. abalone, sea cucumber, yu piao & a lot of others, total there r 15 diff ingredients inside n it juz taste so nice lo.. i felt so sinful eating it.. hahaha.. cousin Eni n her fren n bf joined us as well.. dis Eni normalli ask her cm spore for a wkend is like killing her lo & yet bcos of her bf, she can come lo.. we were all suan-ing her "ai qing de mo li ke zhen da" hahaha.. oso cant blame her la.. ppl nw is honeymoon period leh.. distant r/s smmr, 1 in sg, 1 in batam.. nan de can mt up once wor.. :p aft tt went shopping wit Eni then i went mt sharon n gang at bugis alr.. we were there 2 discuss abt her wedding on 8jul06.. the main point tt day was how 2 tekkan shawn.. hahahaha.. gd luck ar shawn, we have come up with a list of things 2 do saboh u alr.. pls come prepared! ;) i tink the whole of last wk, i didnt reali go out.. lydat oso gd la, can save $ n no need hear ppl nag.. :X
ok, today supp 2 mt up with some ex-colics but i guess it might be cancelled agn.. omg.. postpone dunno how many times le..i feel like fainting..
ok i go bk to work le la..
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 10:27
Wednesday, June 21, 2006
小时侯我总会这样牵着你的手
只是渴望能够在你的身边守侯
为了保护你不小心割破手指头
这个小伤却让你泪流心痛
长大后我们越来越远分隔地球的两边
何时才能够见面
熟悉微笑的脸
回忆起我们小时候
闭上眼睛就能感受
在我们心中漫漫流动的温柔 HO OOOO~
离开了我们小时候
现在你会不会想我
也许你找到一个人为你守侯
忘了了
回忆起我们小时候
闭上眼睛就能感受
站在窗前的你说了晚安就走
离开了我们小时候
现在的你不再想我
这个时候
忘了了
那次以后
我们两个再也没有见面
我只能说 再见
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 13:28
Monday, June 19, 2006
many days nvr reali blog le.. its alwax either pictures or entries from interesting forwarded emails.. mi lazy.. :p ok i shall blog abt wat happened over the past few wks ba..
firstly, mi now working le.. but temp 2mths only la.. but job not too bad.. so fast mi alr work there for a wk liao.. time flies.. 1st day went to work, mi still nd mornin call fr sm1 lo.. cos 1mth plus nvr work liao, worri cant wake up.. so 1st day i was damn early.. subsequently i was not bery late oso la.. well at least tt's for the 1st wk ma.. *leave gd impression* haha.. nw alr 2nd week liao, dis wk like nthg much to do.. sianz man, everyday in ofc try 2 act busy.. wah lao can die.. oh ya, my family is planning a HKG trip dis jul.. i hope all can go.. if not nt fun de.. i nd 2 get away fr here.. go there relak a bit sure shiok de.. hehe..
last wk was kinda a bz wk fr thur onwards.. thur mt up wit my ex-ex-ex-colics to haf dinner.. long time nv mt the gals le so we had dinner n a long chat.. fri by right mtg qi for movie, but by left she got held up so i ended up mtg pigsy go bugis.. sat mt jie for klunch n went shop shop.. then aft tt mt my frenz go eat at tiong bahru at nite.. its a long day, but gd to mt up wit them, catch up a bit n find out how they r.. sunday went tings wit my mummy then aft tt mt gd fren for dinner.. few wks nv c him, he still as shok as ever.. haha.. hopeless.. aft dinner, walk walk then go home le.. cos nx day gotta work.. diao..
went to help out sharon's wedding on 4jun (sun).. mi n LL n 2 other gals went 2 b her jiemei.. haha.. altho its a whole day event but we had fun! most fun is the part on tekan-ing jason.. haha.. evil us made them sushi-bread then made jason did pole dance on his brothers.. haha.. c liao damn funni.. but the best part was sharon's dad nv lock! n jason juz came in lydat aft given us a small angpow.. basket.. mi n LL literally ran into sharon's room n shove him outta her room lo.. whr got so easy can get the bride rite.. gns.. haha.. aft much "nonsense" the real ting starts.. we went fr sharon's parents' place to jason's parents' place to sharon & jason's place then bk to sharon's parents' place n finali to the hotel whr we can napz b4 the dinner starts.. jason's bro r a bunch of crazy ppl, the photographer oso.. tk photo oso gt a lot of pattern 1.. haha.. we went to help out at the reception at 6+ aft we had our super thick makeup done.. nv in my life got so much tings on my face.. then aft tt dinner start.. n in btwn the courses, mi n the gals started "concocting potent drinks" for jason.. haha.. we were kind alr lo, only 2 glasses, his bros concocted more than 9 glasses for him.. haha.. here's our concoction:
i hope jason didnt get the runs aft tt.. haha.. anyway it was reali qte fun other than the tired-ness.. congrats jason & sharon! :)
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 00:16
some shots i took in the ferry on the way to batam last wkend
the weather was qte bad when we went there.. the entire wkend was rainning.. so we didnt reali go out lo.. -_-
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 00:06
Thursday, June 15, 2006
For those still single..., take note...
For those who are married, just read for your info... cannot really do much already.
Enjoy...
A relationship coach lays out his 5 golden rules for evaluating the prospects of long-term success. When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50 percent, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Ms. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged why they're getting married, they'll say We're in love. I believe is the #1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love (alone). Though this may sound not politically correct, there's a profound truth here. Love (alone) is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: You can't build a lifetime relationship on love alone. You need a lot more. Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you're serious about finding and keeping a life partner.
QUESTION #1: Do we share a common life purpose?
Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you're married for 20 or 30 years, that's a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose. Two things can happen in a marriage. You can grow together, or you can grow apart. 50 percent of the people out there are growing apart. To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life - bottom line - and marry someone who wants the same thing.
QUESTION #2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?
This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust - i.e. trust that I won't get punished or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.
QUESTION #3: Is he/she a mensch?
A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as someone who is always striving to be good and do the right thing. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement. There are essentially two types of people in the world: People who are dedicated to personal growth and people who are dedicated to seeking comfort. Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.
QUESTION #4: How does he/she treat other people?
The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure. Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self-absorbed? To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as a waiters, bus boy, taxi driver, etc. How do they treat parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation? Do they show respect? If they don't have gratitude for the people who have given them everything, you cannot expect that they'll have gratitude for you-who can't do nearly as much for them! Do they gossip and speak badly about others? Someone who gossips cannot be someone who loves others. You can be sure that someone who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.
QUESTION #5: Is there anything I'm hoping to change about this person after we're married?
Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to improve them after they're married. As a colleague of mine puts it, You can probably expect someone to change after marriage ... for the worse! If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them. In conclusion, dating doesn't have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating, to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don't want to find yourself in trouble because you didn't do your homework.
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 10:38
Saturday, June 03, 2006
Joey, you're a Goofball!
Your type is the Goofball
Laughter is the way to your heart. A guy with a great sense of humor isdefinitely the one for you! You want a Goofball, someone who can laugh at himself and make you laugh, too. There's no bigger turn-off than a guy who takes himself too seriously. You know that if a guy is silly, he's generally self-confident and secure. Your man is a people magnet and everyone's favorite friend. There's never a dull moment with your jokester nearby. You crave excitement and laughter, and your goofball enhances those things in your life. You probably think life is too short to spend it without a smile. Your goofy guy will ensure that that doesn't happen — his lighthearted and silly ways make everything a little bit brighter.
I'm giving you @TITUDE /
- 23:41
